What goals should men in their early 20s be setting for themselves?

I'm 23, finished college, looking for a job, but for the first time in my life I feel lost. I feel like I've always known what to do next, because it was always so simple, school.

I'm lacking motivation, ambition, and hope. I don't know what I want out of life. The only goals I've ever really had are to have a family one day.

What goals should young men, entering adulthood, be setting for themselves?