Why women going 4B is celebrated while Men going redpilled is seen as misogynist ?

I have seen many post where women celebrated when South Korean infertility rates ,they think that all this infertility rates where becoz women r not having sex but on the other hand men from usa and western countries refusing to mixed with modern standards of dating ( which is horrible anyways these days ) r seen as bad ,incels but point to be noticed is that american men r refusing to marry in their own countries which is also true but there r other factors like biased laws ,unsafe western countries for children ,bad influence of liberals etc I just think that men going mgtow and redpilled should also be celebrated as they don't mean harm they just want to live like a monk with no society expectations