It seems like there’s a lot of capable women and barely any capable men?

I want to preface this by saying I absolutely do not think all men are bad. I love my father, grandfather, brother in law, and I also have a lot of great guy friends. I've just been observing that lately it seems as if there are a lot more very capable women (high achieving, emotionally intelligent, mature, financially stable, etc) than there are capable men. Is it just me? Why is modern society like this?! I know so many spectacular women who seem to end up with bum men.