Why can't there 😢 total peace between Eritrea and Tigray

I a 16yr M Ethiopian Tigrayan fully understand what has happen in the past with TPLF and EPLF/ PFDJ and the Algiers Agreemeng and Badme War and especially the Tigray War, but do we really want to live in a toxic environment and world forever 🤔. We literally fought the Derg together and basically speak the same language with some differences and have tribes like the Kunama and Saho on both borders, so why🥺🥹🥺. I just want peace and coexistence between Tigray and Eritrea

This post is not meant to be offensive, disrespectful or nonsensical to Eritrea and to Eritreans. Also to its history

Please let 🙏 😢 me know if I have crossed my boundaries or made an unnecessary offense.