Dealing with avodint attachment people is genuinely so annoying

Like I get your scared or wtv and wanna withdraw from the situation but it’s just so annoying getting them to open up like I’m trying not to be insensitive but like i have to wait 16hrs for a damn text back because it’s to emotional for you? Or you have to withdraw because of your past trama that has nothing to do with me at all? Not everyone is a super evil villain that’s gonna abandon you like goddamn i have to get hurt because your scared. And you got hurt in the past like omg dude I genuinely have a strong hate against this shit it’s like you don’t wanna get attached then I understand but you just ignore peoples texts that are trying to have a emotional conversation with you like I hate how it’s a natural reaction to it’s so damn annoying like you can just face your fears. The world doesn’t work if you avoid someone/ something it just goes away and it’s solved and yes your actions to come off as your trying to be a jerk or a dick and yes I’ve tried to understand the avodint side and again it doesn’t make it any better how about you understand our side and see it from a different perspective that maybe we’re like hmmm why am I still on delivered 6 hours later when I said “hey we need to talk”and don’t get me started on the dumb ass shit where they will find any mess up you do or anything bad you do to paint you as the bad guy to just make any reson for them to avoid you. Get cured please don’t avoid shit I understand needed space but not avoiding anything emotional.