Are we wasting time here?

Been here for a little over a year, Didn’t make any real relationship or any “real” friends that is not for sake of potential opportunities or money. And I never felt like a human here I come from a place where the wage is way lower but you will never find “partitions” or the concept of bed space. Actually even 1bhk is considered small there.

I am 24 years old making around 10k a month as software engineer but I never felt stability, and when ever I look for other opportunities it’s even a struggle to find a real company that is willing to sponsor visa with the correct title on it never the less give a better salary

I did save good money but I felt like I wasted a year of my time on earth replacing all life aspects with only money and recently I can’t push myself to work and If my productivity continues to dib I am for sure getting fired.

So does anyone think that it’s possible to make real friends and have “real” life here ? A life where I’m not constantly worrying about visa ?