SP vs DP ( Destiny Person )

I Had this Weird Question ❓❓❓

Suppose Encountered with Someone I liked that person I decided This person is my SP ( Nancy ) I Did Manifestion stuff affirmation scripting etc etc. I got my SP ( Nancy ) . I lived Life. I died. After death' I had Discussion with God He told me if you wouldn't have manifested SP their was another person written in you density.DP ( Destiny Person ) and that person was Dua lipa or Taylor Swift. God even showed me different reality where I lived happily with DP ( Taylor Swift ) Even told me this was the best life you ever lived. Basically god wanted to say you manipulated your density. You settled for good while I had planned best for you.

Basically my point is who are we to decide what's best for us ?? What if not to manifest SP and let universe or destiny decide what's good for us. ? Not all people on earth manifest SP. And not all people who manifested SP are happy forever.

My mind is spiralling around this thing.. anyone has their opinion please help me..