What are the non cis gay Basement parties like ?

I’ve only been to the Basement once but whoever was spinning in STUDIO in January for wrecked they made me absolutely LOVE techno . But I wonder what are the other nights like that aren’t wrecked ? I love being around other gay guys but it’s frustrating when everyone’s just trying to hookup and no one’s there to dance/there for the music . If someone could recommend a party that has the sweet spot of dance , sex , music and hot guys I’d love you forever ( even if this means recommending me real circuit parties out of state/country plsssss do so )