Stop asking how these women could flirt or be intimate with taken men!

Because it’s a job, y’all. They took a job. If they didn’t do it— someone else would have been casted.

If no one would — the show wouldn’t exist. It’s that simple.

The focus should be on the partnered people who allowed themselves to be tempted. The temptresses would be just standing around looking gorgeous every episode if the partnered people weren’t engaging. And that would lead to no show / no juicy drama.

Also one final thought — I am all for jumping on the misandry train when it’s valid lol but you can’t say this is all men. When casting for these shows they choose people who would make good tv. Couples where there is a history of infidelity and other toxic behaviors make good tv because they will fall victim to temptation. If you choose ultra loyal couples, there would be no show. I’m not saying men don’t cheat — they are for sure more likely than women to cheat. However, the majority of men wouldn’t cheat knowing you (and anyone with social media) would find out, in detail.

Love all the other discourse and tea!! I just think this particular discussion is silly. We have to remember this is a show, there are producers and other incentives that encourage cast members to act in ways that you may find unsavory and likely ways they wouldn’t act IRL (especially the temptresses).